Self and Society in Church, Ministry, and everyday life

My Ph. D. is in Conflict Analysis and Resolution. I sought this degree because I observed Christian folk in conflict and past attempts to deal with it were not successful. Without social factors being acknowledged and attended to, social conflict will continue to be problematic among religious, church, and societal settings. Have you noticed that much of the New Testament concerns holiness in the context of social relationships? The greatest commands concern our vertical relationship with God and our horizontal relationships during everyday interactions.

How can I/ you deal with this reality in light of self, society, and everyday life, in and out of church contexts (Hebrews 10:25)?